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Questions, answered

Before you begin.

The basics
What is Tempted Fantasy?

TF is a curated home for desire. We do two things: we connect you with verified, professional providers for private one-to-one experiences, and we host TF Shadow — a private community for creators and kink-positive adults. It's built for people who want to explore what they want, on their terms, without judgment.

Who are the providers?

Every experience is delivered by a verified provider — a professional Domme (female or male) or an Experience & Kink Creator (female or male). TF verifies each provider before they go live. You tell us what you're looking for and we curate the right match.

Is this a sexual service?

No. TF curates and arranges experiences — a provider's time, skill and the scene they create. We do not sell, broker, price or take a cut of any sexual activity. What two consenting adults choose to do privately is entirely their own business and nothing to do with TF. Every experience is consent-led and agreed in full beforehand.

Booking & payment
How does booking an experience work?

Send an enquiry through the Experiences page describing what you're drawn to and the type of provider you have in mind. TF reviews it personally and responds within 48 hours with options and a confirmed price. Once you approve, we send a secure payment link and confirm the booking. You simply arrive.

How much do experiences cost?

As a guide: tasters from £120–150, standard experiences £200–350, full immersion £400–700, and bespoke or multi-provider concepts from £500. Your exact quote is confirmed before anything proceeds — nothing moves forward until you've approved the cost.

How do I pay?

After we've agreed the scope and price, TF sends you a secure payment link. You pay TF for the booking and TF arranges everything from there. We'll never ask for payment before you've confirmed the details.

What's your cancellation policy?

Experiences can be rescheduled or cancelled with at least 24 hours' notice. Cancellations inside 24 hours may be non-refundable, as the provider's time has been reserved. Full terms are on the Terms page.

Discretion & safety
How is my privacy protected?

Your identity is never shared — not with providers, not with anyone outside TF. You can enquire under an alias. Every experience is covered by signed consent and discretion agreements before contact is made, and TF will never contact you unsolicited. See our Privacy page for detail.

Do I need to verify my age?

Yes. TF is strictly for adults 18 and over. You'll confirm your age when you enquire, and we may ask for verification before a booking or event is confirmed.

What experiences are not offered?

Some requests sit outside what TF lists or facilitates for legal, health and safety reasons. If you have something specific in mind, raise it in your enquiry and we'll advise honestly on what can and can't be arranged. Nothing is ever assumed.

TF Shadow
What is TF Shadow?

TF Shadow is our private community night — an invitation-only social mixer for creators, performers and kink-positive adults already in the scene. It's a curated room to connect, collaborate and be seen. It is not a club night or a play party, and nothing is sold or paid for at the event.

Do I have to be a creator to attend?

No. Every Shadow night is curated 50/50 — half creators, half experiencers. You don't have to be a creator to belong; confident, kink-positive adults are just as welcome. Everyone applies the same way.

How do I get in?

Apply through the TF Shadow page. We review every application personally and curate on energy and scene-credibility, not looks. If you're a fit, you'll receive a personal invitation with the date, city and a ticket link. Everyone is vetted and 18+.

Providers & what's next
How do I become a TF provider?

We're always looking for exceptional Dommes and Experience & Kink Creators. Apply through the Join as a provider page — you keep the majority of every booking, and TF handles discretion, vetting and logistics.

Do you offer group or couples experiences?

They're coming soon — couples experiences, hen and stag nights, and private group experiences. Register your interest on the Experiences page and you'll be first to know when they launch.